Oh wow haha, instead of making this post you really could have just told me to stop commenting.
You've been reluctant to post because somebody else comments? It's kind of pathetic isn't it? I'm sure there's a block user thing you can do or something. Regardless it's certainly a very hurtful thing to come on and read, obviously I'll gladly unfollow you, you should have said dude/dudette/whatever you are because to be honest I don't really care.
to the contrary, what i find pathetic is your insistence that you understand what everybody else is going through, half a world away across an ocean, and spanning multiple cultures. thank you for your respect. if you ever do come up with an answer to my question, i'd love to hear it.
and i did try to block you as a user, but apparently you either never officially followed me on blogger, or there was a glitch in the system, because your username never showed up among my 'followers' which made it impossible to follow you. if you have any technical suggestions about how i might address this problem in the future, i'd appreciate the advice.
Kae, your sex or gender is irrelevant. What you've done here is try to make yourself feel good about yourself by making another person feel bad about themselves.
Ugh, look Kae, you're right. I have got no clue in the slightest what you're going through, I don't really, I never have. With that said some of your points on human emotions can be understood by anybody because emotions and feelings are universal, they're not cultured or country restrained and I assumed a person who fronts on here as intelligent would be aware of that.
I also thought since you're here on Blogspot you would WELCOME input whether people understand your situation or not. It isn't that way though is it and my attempted "input," has made you not only dread my comments and be reluctant to blog and for that I am truly sorry. I've been following you for a long time so maybe it caused some kind of glitch in your system but when I get on my computer later I promise I will do the correct thing and unfollow.
Your gender is irrelevant for the record, if you're nice to me and seem a genuinely good person I will always be nice in return. You obviously haven't been nice and it's upset me but I'm ready to move on. Best of luck Kae, keep doing what you do.
You talk utter tripe! If you have a problem with someone, you go to them and sort it out, not act like a little school girl and have a tantrum and throw your teddy out of your pram!! Pathetic!! Matthew is a very kind hearted person and you have picked ont he wrong person!! maybe it is you that has the annoying habits!?! It's your blog and obviously can talk about whatever you wish, but to do something like this is low. And no one cares if you are a boy or girl, what difference would it make? Your still nasty and vile. You obviously don't know Matthew one bit! He's grand! You should try it sometime!!
@Kae How could someone not know what your going through. Everyone goes through the same things. Sure its different subjects (race, religionm, gender, sexuality, appearence, age, abilitys, family, situation) but everyone knows what its like to be missunderstood and looked down on and be confuessed. (I wish it wasn't the case but for now it is!)
You said to YeamieWaffles that he couldn't understand something cause he lived half a world away. If you think geography is so relivient to understanding feelings (which are universal) you sound like a homophobic rasist redneck who can't understand others differences (with out reading all your blogs to find out more about you I'm just gonna assume you are a hateful rasits homaphobic ass... cause thats what your acting like!) People are people we all bleed when cut we all cry when sad we all understand others emotions (even if people like you wanna deny such knowledge) understanding and compassion are universal (exept in some parts of the USA)! You should imbrace peoples sharing of info, not be censering it!
Let me just say this: Kae's gender is irrelevant in general. *However*, YeamieWaffles has consistently referred to Kae as "dude", when Kae has never referred to themselves as "dude," nor implied that the term would be appreciated.
As for the other comments, there are too many points to refute and I do not have the time to waste. We would all benefit from being kinder to one another. We should never assume we understand another person just because we happen to read the writing on their blog.
Even if you disagreed with the way in which Kae handled telling you off, you could have taken a more mature course of action, like sending a private message apologizing for any past offense and asking for the post about you to be removed. Bantering over the internet isn't really going to help anyone. Instead of worrying about how it was done, start to think about the why.
As an old friend of Kae's, let me just go on record as saying how ridiculous the accusations of homophobia are. I had to laugh at that one.
I agree with B on this one, for the most part. There are way too many things that could be said here.
I can't see any accusations of homophobia here. Especially considering I'm not even gay haha :L But seriously, this has gone way too far, no more. I'm sorry for what I did that caused Kae to call me out in a post like she did, can't we all just make up and move on? Really, this is all kind of silly isn't it?
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oh, and before you respond to this one, just in case you happen to read anything anybody else has said: am i a boy or a girl?
Oh wow haha, instead of making this post you really could have just told me to stop commenting.
You've been reluctant to post because somebody else comments? It's kind of pathetic isn't it? I'm sure there's a block user thing you can do or something. Regardless it's certainly a very hurtful thing to come on and read, obviously I'll gladly unfollow you, you should have said dude/dudette/whatever you are because to be honest I don't really care.
to the contrary, what i find pathetic is your insistence that you understand what everybody else is going through, half a world away across an ocean, and spanning multiple cultures. thank you for your respect. if you ever do come up with an answer to my question, i'd love to hear it.
and i did try to block you as a user, but apparently you either never officially followed me on blogger, or there was a glitch in the system, because your username never showed up among my 'followers' which made it impossible to follow you. if you have any technical suggestions about how i might address this problem in the future, i'd appreciate the advice.
Kae, your sex or gender is irrelevant. What you've done here is try to make yourself feel good about yourself by making another person feel bad about themselves.
Ugh, look Kae, you're right. I have got no clue in the slightest what you're going through, I don't really, I never have. With that said some of your points on human emotions can be understood by anybody because emotions and feelings are universal, they're not cultured or country restrained and I assumed a person who fronts on here as intelligent would be aware of that.
I also thought since you're here on Blogspot you would WELCOME input whether people understand your situation or not. It isn't that way though is it and my attempted "input," has made you not only dread my comments and be reluctant to blog and for that I am truly sorry. I've been following you for a long time so maybe it caused some kind of glitch in your system but when I get on my computer later I promise I will do the correct thing and unfollow.
Your gender is irrelevant for the record, if you're nice to me and seem a genuinely good person I will always be nice in return. You obviously haven't been nice and it's upset me but I'm ready to move on. Best of luck Kae, keep doing what you do.
You talk utter tripe! If you have a problem with someone, you go to them and sort it out, not act like a little school girl and have a tantrum and throw your teddy out of your pram!! Pathetic!! Matthew is a very kind hearted person and you have picked ont he wrong person!! maybe it is you that has the annoying habits!?! It's your blog and obviously can talk about whatever you wish, but to do something like this is low. And no one cares if you are a boy or girl, what difference would it make? Your still nasty and vile. You obviously don't know Matthew one bit! He's grand! You should try it sometime!!
@Kae How could someone not know what your going through. Everyone goes through the same things. Sure its different subjects (race, religionm, gender, sexuality, appearence, age, abilitys, family, situation) but everyone knows what its like to be missunderstood and looked down on and be confuessed. (I wish it wasn't the case but for now it is!)
You said to YeamieWaffles that he couldn't understand something cause he lived half a world away. If you think geography is so relivient to understanding feelings (which are universal) you sound like a homophobic rasist redneck who can't understand others differences (with out reading all your blogs to find out more about you I'm just gonna assume you are a hateful rasits homaphobic ass... cause thats what your acting like!)
People are people we all bleed when cut we all cry when sad we all understand others emotions (even if people like you wanna deny such knowledge) understanding and compassion are universal (exept in some parts of the USA)!
You should imbrace peoples sharing of info, not be censering it!
Wow.
Let me just say this: Kae's gender is irrelevant in general. *However*, YeamieWaffles has consistently referred to Kae as "dude", when Kae has never referred to themselves as "dude," nor implied that the term would be appreciated.
As for the other comments, there are too many points to refute and I do not have the time to waste. We would all benefit from being kinder to one another. We should never assume we understand another person just because we happen to read the writing on their blog.
~B.
Even if you disagreed with the way in which Kae handled telling you off, you could have taken a more mature course of action, like sending a private message apologizing for any past offense and asking for the post about you to be removed. Bantering over the internet isn't really going to help anyone.
Instead of worrying about how it was done, start to think about the why.
As an old friend of Kae's, let me just go on record as saying how ridiculous the accusations of homophobia are. I had to laugh at that one.
I agree with B on this one, for the most part. There are way too many things that could be said here.
I can't see any accusations of homophobia here. Especially considering I'm not even gay haha :L But seriously, this has gone way too far, no more. I'm sorry for what I did that caused Kae to call me out in a post like she did, can't we all just make up and move on? Really, this is all kind of silly isn't it?
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